Feeling: Sick still :(
Yes im still feeling a little crook and i think i know who i got it from!! Yes baby you jeddymon!! From when you came down to see me like 2-3 weeks ago!! :P jkz but seriously how else and who else would i get it from!?
Well before going to sleep tonight, i thought id go check out a few ppls blogs and stumbled upon a few ppls new entries and right now im so KO from my cough medicine and cold and flu tablets but im determined to do this! Oh and also talking to a close friend about his recent encounter with a few issues. Damn you Chris-chan ping la, Caz and Concing for being my inspirations!! LOLz i mean that in a good intention guys!! LOLz.
Well this is my blog and so ill say everything how i wnt and everyone has the right to express their opinions. So haters before i continue, you have a few options.
1. To close this window
2. To click on my other links i have on my side bar [LOLz]
3. To keep reading and leave ur opinions in my comments section but no abusing other ppl and stuff.
Seem fair enough?! Ok here goes... WARNING!! this may sound a lil corney and sappy to some! So dnt blame me ok!LOLz
Ok topic tonight is: LOVE!
Yes, gzzz its such a strong word which some take for granted. Its also i guess manipulative in a few ways as well.
Some ppl can make you fall for them but in the end to figure out they have abused you so hardcore that sometimes you want to turn lesbian. Or as some girls may have to have said once before - join a convent and become and nun. Guys may have just given up and use some other ways to get over a chick but i dont know any examples for guys to do this so yea if any leave a comment aye guys?! Ill add it on next time or just re-edit this thing.
Quoted from someone else's blog -
"So i wanna know what is love, how can i get some and who can i get it from?"
Well these Questions always i guess arise in any conversation be it with just the girls, guys or a mix of both sexes.
The answers are unknown to every person. My view on -
Part I - "i wanna know what love is.."
Personally, i dont know what it is. I will admitt that i have been a fool to say i have been in love and stuff, but that just ended in alot of heartache and pain and getting use to the fact that it wasnt working and had to let go.
Love i guess is something you know when you've met that special mr/mrs right and cant get them out of your head 24/7 and probably not being able to sleep at night. Always wanting to be with them as much as you can. Cherishing every moment spent together and enjoying they're company even without the pair of you saying a single word.
Yes, gzzz its such a strong word which some take for granted. Its also i guess manipulative in a few ways as well.
Some ppl can make you fall for them but in the end to figure out they have abused you so hardcore that sometimes you want to turn lesbian. Or as some girls may have to have said once before - join a convent and become and nun. Guys may have just given up and use some other ways to get over a chick but i dont know any examples for guys to do this so yea if any leave a comment aye guys?! Ill add it on next time or just re-edit this thing.
Quoted from someone else's blog -
"So i wanna know what is love, how can i get some and who can i get it from?"
Well these Questions always i guess arise in any conversation be it with just the girls, guys or a mix of both sexes.
The answers are unknown to every person. My view on -
Part I - "i wanna know what love is.."
Personally, i dont know what it is. I will admitt that i have been a fool to say i have been in love and stuff, but that just ended in alot of heartache and pain and getting use to the fact that it wasnt working and had to let go.
Love i guess is something you know when you've met that special mr/mrs right and cant get them out of your head 24/7 and probably not being able to sleep at night. Always wanting to be with them as much as you can. Cherishing every moment spent together and enjoying they're company even without the pair of you saying a single word.
You get little butterflies when you know your going to see that person and get all excited at the thought of it. Like Caz said you cant help but smile or giggle to yourself thinking about that person or remembering the little things they say or do. Letting them know you're there for them where ever when ever and doing anything to keep them happy or to see that beautiful smile on their face, which also brightens your whole day or Life. Love is i guess your soul mate and best friend for life where you can tell them anything and everything even again without having to say anything to them at all. They always know what your thinking.
Part II: "How Can i Get Some...?"
Going out and looking for love is pretty hard since no one really knows what Love really is.
I guess love comes to you in due time as in when cupid deceides to shoot you in the azz with that damn arrow. Exactly when is cupid going to do so?! Again no one knows. So looking for love is hard but then if you want to try and look for it and seeing if its in that special girl/guy isnt so bad. How else are you suppose to find your soulmate then without a little interaction with others? But just tread a little careful as some other ppl may look at you in bad ways and stuff if you get my drift...just remember Love finds you most of the time.
Part III: "Who Can i Get it From...?"
I guess love comes to you in due time as in when cupid deceides to shoot you in the azz with that damn arrow. Exactly when is cupid going to do so?! Again no one knows. So looking for love is hard but then if you want to try and look for it and seeing if its in that special girl/guy isnt so bad. How else are you suppose to find your soulmate then without a little interaction with others? But just tread a little careful as some other ppl may look at you in bad ways and stuff if you get my drift...just remember Love finds you most of the time.
Part III: "Who Can i Get it From...?"
Gzz this ones a good Question LOLz. I guess this person has to see you as for who you are and not bring up your past which hopefully you've told them either way and vice versa. Also someone who is as honest and willing to go through every tough time you have in your life and the good times. Someone whos not going to dump you after they've gotten what they want - be it sex or the material things in life or cheated on you because you werent giving them something they need.
Ahh thats all my brain can handle right now on that little topic. Ok not so much little cause LOVE can go one forever but i choose not to go there. LOLz
Another thing id like to answer is -
"how do you know that the person is the right person and when is my turn to find the right person???"
Another thing id like to answer is -
"how do you know that the person is the right person and when is my turn to find the right person???"
Part I: "How do we know if that person is really the right person....?"
Fck who knows but when you do - the feeling is the best. Wait Hold on - as in the right person to be with Forever or just general!? Oh gzz... well from my experience when i first fell in love and the last time [LOLz] It was the best feeling. Knowing that other person feels the same and stuff. But oh wells - no one can really answer this one but yourself aye?!
Part II: "...When is my turn to find the right person?"
Fck who knows but when you do - the feeling is the best. Wait Hold on - as in the right person to be with Forever or just general!? Oh gzz... well from my experience when i first fell in love and the last time [LOLz] It was the best feeling. Knowing that other person feels the same and stuff. But oh wells - no one can really answer this one but yourself aye?!
Part II: "...When is my turn to find the right person?"
Oh gzz again. LOLz I guess this links up with "How Can i Get Some".
Finding that right person and where is a bloody bitch?! I know some of you may agree to that. LOLz but really its all in due time ppl. Remember it comes when least expected and that you never know that the right person was infront of you the whole time and your whole life.
Well they're my answers to some questions that have been asked by a few friends.
Only thing i can to all my single friends and maybe looking for someone is:
We're young and having a partner in life right now is probably a necessity but really if you think about it - what do relationships sometimes go through? HELL right?! and if you really want to be with someone right now?! So in a nice way of putting it so not to offend my lovely gay bf- You guys are single man!! Enjoy it!! You have a whole life set out there for you to explore. Maybe setting your life straight and then finding the someone is an option to take but then i understand if you guys want that special someone there to be by your side while setting your life straight. Always asking or wanting to have a gf/bf can be a good thing but also bad. If you've just come out of a long relationship [you both know who you are here esp. a particular male LOLz] where you just found out that other person just decided to drop a bomb on ur life, maybe its time to cool it for a bit and just enjoy the simple single life. Like really, if your young sexy and enjoy your friends company and just bumming with them as much as you can and getting together maybe thats what should do for a while. Hang out with friends even catch up with some old friends who you've lost contact with. But going off and getting into a relationship with someone and stuff can only bring not just yourself sadness and pain but the other party. You'd be lying to yourself and the other person.
I hope iv made some sense in all this aye. Hopefully i did and have given a few other ppl not just my close friends a good thing to think about.
As my favourite quote/proverb says -
"Life is Like a Piece of Paper, on which every Passer by Leaves a Mark."
Which i rekon is so true and now i shall go to bed pondering and thinking of all the memories that my old close long time friends and new close friends which all i hold dearly in my heart and life have made.
I love you guys all so much and would love to thank you all right now in this special blog for everything and all the memories we've shared and goign to share!! I hope we all never fall back and loose each other to anything!! Where the hell would i really be without you ppl to make me laugh and share my tears and pain with!!! Hugz and Kissez!!!
This is also going out to one TRUE friend who is sadly and dearly missed - Paul Thanh Ngyuen which you have definatley left a SPECIAL mark in everyone that knew you. R.I.P Bro 10:04:85 - 12:12:04 We all miss you!!
- LiL jOjO xoxo
We're young and having a partner in life right now is probably a necessity but really if you think about it - what do relationships sometimes go through? HELL right?! and if you really want to be with someone right now?! So in a nice way of putting it so not to offend my lovely gay bf- You guys are single man!! Enjoy it!! You have a whole life set out there for you to explore. Maybe setting your life straight and then finding the someone is an option to take but then i understand if you guys want that special someone there to be by your side while setting your life straight. Always asking or wanting to have a gf/bf can be a good thing but also bad. If you've just come out of a long relationship [you both know who you are here esp. a particular male LOLz] where you just found out that other person just decided to drop a bomb on ur life, maybe its time to cool it for a bit and just enjoy the simple single life. Like really, if your young sexy and enjoy your friends company and just bumming with them as much as you can and getting together maybe thats what should do for a while. Hang out with friends even catch up with some old friends who you've lost contact with. But going off and getting into a relationship with someone and stuff can only bring not just yourself sadness and pain but the other party. You'd be lying to yourself and the other person.
I hope iv made some sense in all this aye. Hopefully i did and have given a few other ppl not just my close friends a good thing to think about.
As my favourite quote/proverb says -
"Life is Like a Piece of Paper, on which every Passer by Leaves a Mark."
Which i rekon is so true and now i shall go to bed pondering and thinking of all the memories that my old close long time friends and new close friends which all i hold dearly in my heart and life have made.
I love you guys all so much and would love to thank you all right now in this special blog for everything and all the memories we've shared and goign to share!! I hope we all never fall back and loose each other to anything!! Where the hell would i really be without you ppl to make me laugh and share my tears and pain with!!! Hugz and Kissez!!!
This is also going out to one TRUE friend who is sadly and dearly missed - Paul Thanh Ngyuen which you have definatley left a SPECIAL mark in everyone that knew you. R.I.P Bro 10:04:85 - 12:12:04 We all miss you!!
- LiL jOjO xoxo
